Sex with a circumcised man feels dry with a hard thrust. They seem to pull out to stimulate the head which causes lubrication to be exposed to air and dry out. Sex with intact men is softer (they don't need to thrust hard for feeling). They also seem to stay deeper which allows the cliterous to be stimulated. If they were to pullout, the foreskin would cover the shaft protecting lubrication from drying out making sex wetter and better.
In my experience, the foreskin doesn't make a HUGE amount of difference, however I've never had my own lubrication issues (in fact kind of the embarrassing opposite). I've only been with two intact men, one was very shy and uncomfortable with his body, and the other is my current husband (of 15 years) so my memory is a big hazy. Plus, it is difficult to separate the different feelings as, with my husband, there is a much deeper connection than there was with previous sexual partners. He is the best lover I've ever had, but I cannot determine if that is because of the emotional attachment to him or if it's purely physical.
I can say, however, that foreskin does not, in any way, make sex worse...and that mutual masturbation and sexual practices besides intercourse are more fun with the intact penis.
i for one, have had only a hand full of orgasms with female partners during vaginal intercourse.(im straight). most of the time, i either end up losing an erection and experiencing rage, or having to masturbate to experience an ejaculation. this of course has had a dramatic impact on every one of my female partners and their satisfaction with the experience. lets just say, in one way or another, its cost me every single relationship ive been in. you want your son to be like me?
Anal receptive is more comfortable with a foreskin. Foreskin is fun to play with. It is so disappointing when giving oral on what would be a fun penis reveals a rough textured glans. The result of heavy scarring from having the foreskin torn away from the glans. All foreskinned glans are very slick and those that are cut and almost as slick didn't have their foreskin torn off being cut later in life. This is true for me 100%. The true circumcision scar starts at the cut line and continues to the mucosa and glans.
I chose circumcision and know it to be the worst. Biggest mistake ever. Had my doctor said I would loose sensation and would not be able to do certain foreplay, I wouldn't have done it.
I had read a study where the doctor said this is common to orgasm hands free by doing Kegal when erect. I would like to know how common. (Another clear example of the range of the intact penis and how sensitive it is. Sensitive enough to cum by the slightest of foreskin retractions as Kegal slightly enlarges the glans thus slightly pulling backward the foreskin until relaxed and then do it again another retraction until orgasm hands free.
I concluded a few years ago that lifelong str8 men like myself have nothing to contribute to this conversation. Str8 women and gay men, on the other hand, have a great deal to contribute...
My wife declines to share her sex life on the internet, and that is her right. She discovered intact nearly 40 years ago in college, by a relationship with a continental European. From then on, all her long term relationships bar one have been with intact foreign born men. I doubt that is an accident. She once told me "I like my men peeled but not prepeeled." Also that every premature ejaculator she has ever met was cut, and that it is her impression that intact men last longer. Earlier in our marriage she used to praise foreskin motion in the vagina. Early in our relationship, my wife examined the end of my penis very intently. This is a very sweet memory. She is also sophisticated about the value of the frenulum during foreplay. One of the lewdest things my wife has ever done is to come to me when I am standing naked, and to pump my penis skin up and down, while looking me in the eye with a little smile. I believe that if a man is intact and healthy, he cannot remain limp in the hands of a woman who understands foreskin play. A competent woman can seduce any intact man with his trousers down.
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