Circumcised Men...

11/29/2011

57 Comments

Attention all circumcised men, what are your feelings on being circumcised? Leave thoughts in comments below....

57 Comments

Tony

12/14/2011 01:15:38 am

I hate my scar. Am I the only one?

Tony Forester link

8/19/2012 07:31:37 pm

You certainly are not. Im another Tony and Ive hated mine
ever since I discovered what had been done.Its ugly ,irregular
and a mutilation. Nor restored at least I can keep it

Tony Forester link

8/19/2012 07:33:38 pm

You certainly are not. Im another Tony and Ive hated mine
ever since I discovered what had been done.Its ugly ,irregular
and a mutilation. Nor restored at least I can keep it

Tony Forester link

8/19/2012 07:35:38 pm

You certainly are not. Im another Tony and Ive hated mine
ever since I discovered what had been done.Its ugly ,irregular
and a mutilation. Nor restored at least I can keep it

dean

10/9/2014 06:43:40 am

I hate everything about it

Peter

5/17/2017 08:22:25 pm

Hello, I stumbled on this site kind of by accident and would like to add my thoughts. I read that a lot of men are very unhappy that a circumcision was performed on them. I am circumcised and until finding the site have not met a man who has a problem with it. I myself love my circumcision and personally don't like the look of a non circumcised penis. I actually think my penis looks great and indeed think that I have one of the best looking penis's there is. I don't believe it changes my sexual pleasure but can't be sure because I wouldn't know any different. That said, the feeling of sex is pretty awesome so I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. I don't like to read about people who feel cheated or hurt because of this procedure. If my advice helps at all I say love yourself, love your penis and don't listen to anyone if they tell you that you are different because of it. I did not circumcise my three boys because of the backlash I got from my wife and some of my male friends (all who weren't circumcised and the ones who were didn't care) and today all of my boys have ask why I didn't get them circumcised. We want to look like you Dad.

Good luck gents and don't let this get you down. It should not make one bit of difference to you.

PS: I am not religious and only wanted to circumcise my boys so they looked like me.

Survey Programmer link

5/18/2017 12:03:02 pm

Peter,

1) Glad to hear that you love your circumcision, despite the loss of the protective, immunological, gliding mechanism and the pleasurable functions contained in the 20,000 nerve endings found in the 15 square inches of erogenous tissue that constitute the adult foreskin.

2) You're correct that, being circumcised at birth, you "wouldn't know any different". The same would be true if you had been born color blind. You would never know the joys of experiencing full color sight.

3) Your feelings about aesthetics are not much different from many women in some parts of Africa whose parents followed tradition and had that "loose skin" removed as children (female foreskin, labia - the "minor" forms of female genital cutting). Many think their circumcised vulvas look smoother, cleaner and prettier without all that "extra" skin. This shouldn't overshadow the fact that many women (and men) experience harm from their circumcisions or don't like that such an intimate decision was made for them as vulnerable children.

4) If your three intact sons are asking why you didn't get them circumcised, please consider that you may have been prompting those questions by subtly or not-so-subtly conveying to them your feelings of not liking the look of the "uncircumcised" penis and how "great" your circumcised penis is.

5) Even if their desire to be circumcised is genuine, a study by Schlossberger (1991) shows that this is transitory. But if it persists, that option is still open to them. If you had you circumcised them at birth and they were not happy with it, circumcision is not reversible. Despite what your sons say now, the overwhelming majority of intact men do not opt for circumcision.

6) The most honest answer any parent can give to a child who asks why they were not circumcised at birth is this: "It's your body. Changing how such a private part of your body looks and functions is a right that belongs only to you, my son. That's not an appropriate decision for parents to make."

Steve C

12/14/2011 01:22:13 am

No! My scar is a reminder of a decision I was denied involving an ability I was robbed of by parents who were lied to by a greedy corrupt system. And I have to suffer because of a doctor.

Keith

12/14/2011 01:52:07 am

I hate my scar, too. I also hate what it represents: that someone removed part of my body without my consent. Foreskin restoration helps some.

AMB link

12/14/2011 02:19:03 am

www.norm.org

Devon

12/14/2011 02:40:55 am

Many scars are seen as a kind of badge. My penis scar is a badge of dishonor. It is the mark of a medical system which accepts and even promotes medical fraud-- and profits from the sexual mutilation of infants.

RicardoD

12/14/2011 12:52:45 pm

Tony, you are NOT the only one. Those who advocate circumcision will tell you that you ARE; don't listen to them. Millions hate it, but do not have the courage to admit it; you are exceptional in that you acknowledge the harm done to you and others, harm that will continue to be done until we can get it all stopped. I hate mine, for sure.

Brad

12/14/2011 02:12:50 pm

The scar represents your loss -- your loss of sexual functioning, yes, but also of the loss of your voice, of your choice, early on in life. It is a primal loss, but it is also one that will affect you for the rest of your life. Only a fool would NOT hate such a scar. My only advice is to say, "forgive them Father, they know not what they do."

James Mac

12/14/2011 07:38:33 pm

I truly hate the fact I was circumcised. Some might say it's over the top to say I was surgically raped, but I'd encourage them to imagine this happening in a world where forced genital cutting practices were unheard of. I would much rather have a whole, fully-functioning and undamaged penis, but that was stolen from me before I could speak for myself or defend myself.

Dave Saving link

12/28/2011 06:03:49 am

I'm a man that was circumcised as a baby and I wish I was NOT. I wish I could have experienced sex the way it was intended. I was denied my choice to keep a functional, natural, healthy body part. Tony, you are not the only one. I know many men that feel the way we do.

Robert Johnson

12/28/2011 06:54:03 am

I hate being circumcised. I know my parents were conned by doctors into believing it was medically and hygenically necessary, but I still feel betrayed that my father, who was not circumcised, didn't intervene on my behalf. It isn't just that I'll never experience the sexual joy of having a foreskin; it's also that I am less able to give sexual joy to another, so in addition to anger I feel guilt. What a bitter pill to swallow!

James Loewen link

12/28/2011 08:05:37 am

My feelings about being circumcision are that this unwanted and forced surgical assault has severely impacted my life, my feelings about sex, intimacy, relationships with my parents etc. I work to help educate and protect children from this insane violation. Greatly appreciative of all who speak up against this abuse of children.

Michael link

12/28/2011 08:31:36 am

I am cut, too. It feels like I am forced into a way of life that I did not choose for myself. You all are not alone in your disgust. The mainstream would have you believe that you're the crazy one and there are no others. We'll stand together.

kyle

12/28/2011 07:03:22 pm

dear tony, i fucking hate circumcision =]

kyle perez

12/28/2011 07:04:02 pm

thank god we have www.foregen.org to give us hope of one day having real orgasms lol. =D

Robert Hurt

12/30/2011 08:43:46 am

You're certainly not alone. Mine is one of the worst 'botches' I've ever seen. As in ALL skin, penile shaft, inner preputial (which is not skin), outer preputial, entire frenular delta, etc... removed. And yet, doctor's tell me, despite the tent-like structure that is my shaft (with the abdominal and scrotal skin being pulled taut during erection and forming my shaft), that it is completely normal. Um, hello?! NO!!! Until I was seven I was completely normal. Now I am mutilated! It is not normal; it is deformed as HELL, not to mention that it's extremely painful and doesn't function much at all.

Tom

11/15/2012 05:33:23 pm

I am 12 years old, and I am absolutely the only one In my world that I know, apart from my brother and my dad, that is Circumcised. I hate it. I feel like I am an alien to my friends, and cringe every time the word "foreskin" is mentioned, because I know that I am different. My best friend has even joked about my difference a couple of times, and even though I can see the humour in it, It still makes me feel worse, because he doesn't know what it feels like to have a part of your body stolen. It's humiliating. There is one friend I know who is like me, and he has helped my "ego" immensely. He is quickly becoming my best friend. I know that we feel the same way, because in a Health class "Puberty talk" a couple of days ago at school, he kept on asking questions about circumcision. I have also done very extensive, almost obsessive research into circumcision myself, which points to the fact that we both feel the same way. Well, I'd better stop now. I'm not Stephen King, I don't feel like writing a thousand page novel right now.
Tom.

Sophia

11/16/2012 03:13:40 am

Dear Tom,

YOU are why I educate on circumcision and will never stop until it's illegal. Wish someone had been able to protect you when you couldn't speak for yourself.

Michael

10/3/2015 01:13:54 pm

Dear, Sophia people like you give me hope. The least that could happen out of my circumcision is it being seen as a lesson to other parents but it's not they continue to do it. You may not ever see this. Your comment to tom made my day.

Sophia

11/16/2012 03:15:28 am

I encourage you to find groups on Facebook for Intactivism. It can be very healing to surround yourself with other men who also feel this way. I will also encourage you to look into foreskin restoration. It is non-surgical and painless.

richard

1/9/2013 07:58:34 am

i was circumcised. i wish the choice had been mine. the only benefit to an infant(after the wound heals) is a .5% lower uti rate. uti's are not bad enough ,imo, to amputate a part of the penis. also, uti's can easily be treated with anti biotics. in uncircumcised males the uti rate is only.7%. as far as the widely varying lower hiv infection rates go, condoms are far better preventative. and if when your son is old enough to have sex, he thinks the benefits are worth it then HE should be the one to make that decision. and for uti's post puberty that part of the male body in that age group is probably the most frequently and thoroughly cleaned part of his body. if,while he is still a minor, some condition arises where circumsion is the best solution then a parent should have it done. but that is the only instance where circumsion should be performed imo. you wouldnt cut off your babies toes to save him from stubbing his toes later in life.

robbert

11/17/2015 10:13:55 pm

Robbert

11/17/2015 10:26:21 pm

the fact is that there is no lower UTI rate among intact children, unless the doctor took it upon himself to retract the poor kids foreskin. Retraction is an absolute no no as the foreskin is still firmly attached to the glans at that age.so retracting leads to infection. leave it alone and there is no safer situation for the penis. in any case females get 10 times as many UTIs as males and they don't need to be mutilated.. as for the HIV infection claim truth be known there is no evidence that HIV is reduced among mutilated men and in the US where circumcision is common there is a coinciding high rate of STDs

Josh

3/7/2013 10:33:00 am

I despise being circumcised! I have hated it for years ever since I began to research what was taken away from me and understood it. My parents never chose to do it to me at birth (for which I thank them) but were misled by an uneducated unethical urologist who diagnosed me with phimosis, which is completely normal and the way the foreskin is SUPPOSED to be. I was circumcised just before the age of 2. I will hate that man for the rest of my life. Please, do not circumcise your sons, give them the choice over their own body

Josh

3/7/2013 10:36:29 am

I don't know if any of you guys have heard but there is a non profit organization working on the possibility of stem cell foreskin regeneration, it would be able to completely reverse a circumcision!
This is really exciting for any man who resents his circumcision,

check it out www.foregen.org

Survey Programmer link

5/8/2013 03:52:31 pm

You are not alone if you dislike the fact you were circumcised without your consent . The Global Survey of Circumcision Harm (www.CircumcisionHarm.org) contains over 1,000 responses from men who documented their physical, sexual or psychological damage from circumcision. Included is photographic evidence and video testimonies.

Loveunderlaw link

11/3/2013 11:25:41 pm

I DETEST the Abrahamic "God" & ALL of his braindead followers that insist on sacrificing their son's & daughter's sexuality to a cruel & malevolent being that hates all of Humanity no matter what we do!

All that sexually mutilate young children deserve to die for their depraved indifference to the rights of others. I only wish that I could have had an opportunity to kill the "Doctor" that violated me when I was a helpless infant, for that I would GLADLY take the death penalty, or life in prison. It would be every bit worth it to remove some more evil from our reality IMO...

todd bates

4/14/2014 03:32:29 am

i am very upset about the whole thing this is cruel and cannot beleive that this is even happening aand continuing out of taking advantage of igorant uneducated parents and greedy doctors i have been to the washington dc protests twice now the crime needs to stop and yes i am a circumcised man

toddbates

4/14/2014 08:10:43 am

i had to make another comment to some of the other men here. dont be afraid to be vocal about this. there are those men who think they are tuff guys and are in denial because they are not ready for the truth or are afraid of it. i used to go off on people in public after i found out about this and i have gone off on doctors as well the issue of circumcision has grown a lot since i found out so dont give up hope. keeping quiet on the subject will only prolong the practice to heck with what other people think.

bluewatj

4/25/2014 10:11:31 am

I am circumcised and personally loathe it. I was raped by a knife when I was less than 24 hours old. My "parents" supported this barbaric act and what makes it worse it that the "doctor" was a female, so she never got mutilated, but thought of my foreskin as a quick 300 bucks. I would give anything to get my foreskin back, and chop up that hypocritical child molester's breasts up, and carve out her genitals. There is a reason I loathe and despise knives. Any parent who did this to their child deserves to be stranded on an island, deprived of any food, sucked into a whirlpool, drown underwater, and if God is real, The Nine Circles of Hell should be reserved for these egoistic, self-centered hypocrites. When bringing this topic up to my parents, they treated me like the victim. My dad outright threatened me, trying to get me to shut up, similar to victim blaming when rapee occurs. My parents are seriously messed up, and I loathe and despise them utterly to my core, and in four years, when I'm eighteen, I'm shunning them forever. My parents are shameless, heartless, cold, bloody, hardened criminals. In the next four years, I have to burn in an intense Hell, with no one to talk to, pantomiming respect for my excuses of "parents". This is enough to keep me up at night, knowing an infant is facing the knife right now. Each day at school, I can feel an intense amount of stress, I can't even do normal activities, I am getting faltering grades, because I can't laugh anymore, it's ridiculous. Words can't describe my pure rage and anger towards these cowards, I'm so ashamed to live in the United States, where these sort of atrocities are accepted. In 1370 days, in less than four years, I'll be eighteen, free to abandon my parents forever. Each night, I think, "I'm one day closer to that day."

Michael

10/19/2015 04:57:03 am

The doctor possibly being female is the second worst part about what was allowed. I don't think I want to know if my doctor was female. That would make it even worse.

bluewatj

4/26/2014 09:27:47 am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0_WmNFVGMY
This is what your parents did to you, when you were an infant. Any real parent wouldn't be able to sleep at night, knowing that they accepted that barbaric surgery on their own son. I just want to run away, and never see my parents ever again. They don't give a shit that they permitted me to go through this, but I'm only 14, so I can't leave without being sent to a foster home, unfortunately.

Michael

10/19/2015 04:59:30 am

I'm hoping to leave the states soon. America disgusts me. Take this shit back to Israel.

todd bates

5/4/2014 07:42:46 am

bluewatj i feel your frustration you are not alone but my parents went along not thinking and going along with what these criminal doctors said some parents do insist ignorantly that they think they want this done but in europe the doctors simply give the baby to the parents when its time to go home european people dont even consider this a parents right cause the doctors do not ask it is simply normal to have intact sex organs. the doctors in america wont stop they will look a fool to stop but will wait for the last parent to say no these doctors will look stupid either way to me they look stupid now. the law that protects girls in this country must do the same for us. try not to be to hard on your parents you know there are some american doctors who do refuse to do them but still not enough they do need to have there licence pulled.

bluewatj

5/5/2014 11:51:39 am

http://www.runawayguide.com/runaway-options/how-to-runaway-from-home/
todd bates, I recently discovered this page. I'm seriously considering running away. I can't stand pretending to respect my parents. I have no one at all who will take me seriously, and overtime my anger will grow stronger and stronger. It is very unhealthy to bottle up anger, and I really have no other option. I simply can't go about 1360 days longer living at home. Whenever I attempt to confront my parents on this issue, they become aggressive. That doesn't help one bit. And when I said I hate my parents, I wasn't kidding, I think they are pathetic. After the day I found out about my rape, I cried for about eight hours straight, but then realized my parents were looking for me to react. They get satisfaction from my emotions. I would love to get my parents arrested one day, and never have the displeasure of looking at their ugly faces for the remainder of my life.

.toddbates

5/8/2014 05:38:13 am

dear bluewatj there are a lot of people that know about this. people are working hard to stop it. your parents might not have known because your father probably is and these doctors are not educating parents. write this down bluewatj. attorneys for the right of the child look it up on the computer you can sue the hospital and doctor when you turn 18 they will help you when the time comes . if the doctor is no longer around you can sue the hospital at age 18 if you wait after 18 you cant sue it will be called statute of limitation also .use your anger in a positive way when you get out of high school try to go to law school to help with the cause. im just trying to help. but a lot of us feel this way you are not alone here is the name again attorney for the right of the child . look it up when you can try and take care. talk soon

bluewatj

6/25/2015 01:32:37 pm

Todd bates, I'll sue the crap out of the perverted "doctors" and get my revenge. I've had dreams where I'd try murder the heinous lady who raped me, although this lawsuit approach is more favorable to me, so I appreciate that.
Also, there is a non-profit organization researching a way to cure circumcision, and it's called foregen, and a sum of 3,000,000 dollars are required to complete the research. I'm 15 years old, and don't have a job yet, although I wish I could donate to help the cause. I know I sound hypocritical, although I encourage you and any other mutilated men to donate to regain our most sensitive tissue of the penis. I can't ejaculate properly due to tight skin, and my glands are hardened entirely after so many years of exposure. Let's end this madness once and for all, fellow intactivists.

graham

7/3/2014 09:59:58 am

i have been circumcised twice at 27 and redone low and tight at66 and now very happy the first was not done properly

Tim Hammond link

10/9/2014 08:25:03 am

If you want a support group meeting for circumcised men to discuss healing from the emotional and/or physical harm done to you, and you live in Vancouver, BC (Canada) or you know a man with such a concern, please know that such a group is starting soon.

Info and Registration: http://checkhimout.ca/healing-wounds/

View flyer at: www.circumcisionharm.org

Tim Hammond link

10/9/2014 08:25:20 am

Tim Hammond link

10/9/2014 08:27:13 am

If you want a support group meeting for circumcised men to discuss healing from the emotional and/or physical harm done to you, and you live in Vancouver, BC (Canada) or you know a man with such a concern, please know that such a group is starting soon.

Info and Registration: http colon slash slash checkhimout dot ca slash healing-wounds slash

View flyer at: www dot circumcisionharm dot org

Tim Hammond link

10/9/2014 08:27:51 am

If you want a support group meeting for circumcised men to discuss healing from the emotional and/or physical harm done to you, and you live in Vancouver, BC (Canada) or you know a man with such a concern, please know that such a group is starting soon.

Info and Registration: checkhimout dot ca slash healing-wounds slash

View flyer at: www dot circumcisionharm dot org

Tim Hammond link

10/9/2014 08:28:26 am

If you want a support group meeting for circumcised men to discuss healing from the emotional and/or physical harm done to you, and you live in Vancouver, BC (Canada) or you know a man with such a concern, please know that such a group is starting soon.

More info and flyer at: www dot circumcisionharm dot org

Charlie

10/10/2014 06:29:05 am

i "restored" my forskin (which does not make it go back to before you were cut of course) and everything sexual changed, it was like an entirely different penis, strange, heres what i noticed..

- my penis is always moist now was always dry before
- orgasms are MUCH more satisfying
- orgasms involve more of my body and not just the penis
- i dont have to "try" to orgasm anymore i just enjoy the feeling and it happens

overall everything for me is better with a foreskin, i cant believe people dont know what it feels like to have one, its way different

Peter

1/23/2015 06:35:06 pm

I am 65 and started restoring in May 2014 and still a way to go but the my enjoyment of sex could not be better with the results so far. Prior to restoring I found that I was taking so long to orgasm during sexual intercourse with my wife I was exhausted and even bored. Now foreplay is much more enjoyable and my wife is enjoying intercourse much more; I've learnt how not to thrust so hard as the movement of the loose skin is very pleasurable. Never too old to start to restore. I had 3 boys and we decided that they would be left intact and caring for their hygiene was never a problem.

bluewatj

7/2/2015 02:25:23 pm

I'm 15, and when I masturbate, it's not as pleasurable as when I was 13, probably because the glans are hardened now from exposure to clothing, they were not entirely lifeless two years ago, but now they are. I want to restore my foreskin, I believe when ejaculating it would enhance pleasure, although my parents don't want to order a foreskin restoration device, they think it's a scam. What should I do to try and restore without them knowing Peter? Thanks in advance.

somekid

3/20/2015 12:33:05 am

I hate that I was circumcised; my parents took a part of my body without my consent and expect me to be thankful for the freedom that they took from me. Now I can never have a sexual experience that is my own, I will never truly know what I was robbed of

Tim Hammond link

6/26/2015 08:06:02 am

As Survey Programmer for the Global Survey of Circumcision Harm (www.CircumcisionHarm.org), producer of the video documentary 'Whose Body, Whose Rights?' (search for the 2-part video on YouTube), I want to encourage all circumcised young men under the age of 18 to consider contacting Attorneys for the Rights of the Child (www.arclaw.org) to learn how they might sue the doctor, hospital, mohel, or health insurance company who participated in their circumcision. You might even set a new precedent for the rights of boys to their bodily integrity and genital autnomy.

Robert Graff

6/6/2016 06:39:43 am

I am 36 and I hate that I was violated like this. Why are you not interested in people over 18?

graham

10/18/2015 04:53:00 pm

i have been cut twice and very happy with the result ,low and tight and very faint scar

Arturo

2/19/2016 06:09:06 am

I was mutilated an an infant, what is affectionately refered to as "circumcision". I have been left with a numb penis, only the base has any feeling. The top 2/3rd has no feeling whatsoever. Youve no idea how i woner what it would be like to have a penis that can feel sensations, rather than a lump of numb flesh that i piss from.

Robert Graff

6/6/2016 06:35:21 am

Women including mothers should not be allowed to make the decision
Fathers and doctors should not be allowed to make the decision
Any woman who says it should be done to please them aesthetically should be brutally raped an then tortured then murdered in the most painful way possible.

Why did someone feel the need to remove potential pleasure from my life by brutally cutting off the most sensitive part of my body before I could even speak?

FUCK WOMEN WHO ALLOW AND EVEN PREFER THIS.

Women you don't like how i feel? FUCK YOU GO DIE PAINFULLY
Men You don't like what I say either FUCK YOU TOO YOU TRAITOR SON OF A BITCH

I have a functional penis? I wouldn't know I dont remember what a whole intact penis feels like. I know my penis works for pleasuring women, But how much am I missing out on?

If you cut your baby you should be brutally beaten to death.
There in no fucking excuse now days other than female fucking stupidity and shallowness. Also weak pussy ass men as fathers.

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